LWD’s first birthday

One year ago, Living With Dignity Canada became a legal entity, launched this website, and published the first instalment of this blog. Happy Birthday to Us!

An old family photo — our baby brother on his first birthday. There’s something I love about the “badness” of this photo, shot on my eldest sister’s cheap little Brownie camera, with an active “flare” caused by the candlelight, maybe. But it reminds me strongly to be okay with imperfection, along with the patience and love we have for one-year-olds (like us) who still have so much to learn!

We launched with great expectations, but quickly learned that virtual reality is a crowded space, and attention is hard to get!

It’s true for everyone, but perhaps especially true for those of us who are talking about difficult subjects that are not entertaining by nature.  Not only is death, whether natural or assisted, a sad topic. It may be tragic, triggering, discouraging, enraging and heartbreaking. It takes extraordinary commitment to voluntarily engage with the topic of death in a serious way. I want to take this opportunity to say THANK YOU to readers who have followed us as we have taken our tentative steps along this treacherous pathway.

For those of you who are disappointed with our progress, I want to gently remind you that we are real people with real lives — caregiving lives that make demands on our time, our physical and emotional energy — and that we’ve never tried to do anything like this before. That said, I’m proud to say that we remain committed to our vision and mission:


We aspire to be proud citizens of our country, Canada.  We want to put a stop to the expansion of Medical Assistance in Dying (MAiD).  The Canada we want to live in would value, support and celebrate the lives of people with disabilities and mental illnesses.  


We are engaged in a long-term effort to shift cultural views in favour of equally valuing the dignified lives of all Canadians.

We believe that there are historic inequalities in our treatment of native Canadians, disabled peoples, women, racial and other minorities that must be acknowledged and bravely addressed. We applaud and encourage all who are presently engaged in such efforts.

We are not opposed to Medical Assistance in Dying (MAiD) for people who are dying.  

We are strongly opposed to the expansion of MAiD to people who are not dying, as set out in law in 2021.   We want the Government of Canada to repeal that legislation.  

Medical assistance in dying, as first enacted in response to the Supreme Court’s Carter decision (as Bill C-14, 2015), introduced an informed and thoughtful approach that met the need to provide assisted death upon request to those whose suffering was grievous and irremediable, and whose natural death was reasonably foreseeable.  This is the standard that we advocate should be maintained.

One of our accomplishments: a mission statement. Let us know if we got it right! If not, what would you suggest? There’s a comment button at the bottom of every page. Or you can send us an email: admin @ living-with-dignity.ca

We’ve moved in SMALL steps towards that mission. Our first birthday is the time to celebrate those baby steps. For example:

  • We launched a Facebook page, which greatly increased our ability to reach out to the communities we want to engage with. (We are not the Kardashians and we don’t aspire to be! But we greatly appreciate our committed readers and action-takers!)
  • We have honoured our mission by honoring the people that LWD is about. Take a moment in our Reflection Room to remember those who are no longer with us, and visit the Lives in the Balance page. If you have updates on how any of these folks are doing, please, please share! And help out if you can by visiting their GoFundMe pages and donating — any amount, small or large can make a difference and let them know that people care. A gift to any or all of them today would be the best kind of birthday gift for us!
  • We’ve also been making a contribution to the movement towards the rolling back of C-7 by contributing hours of work to building the evidence archive. The expansion has been a fast moving juggernaut and it’s critically important to document the RESISTANCE work being done by so many wonderful people. Check out our Testimony to Government page — especially the AMAD committee hearings of 2022. The videos are cropped and easy to find. Many community members (in Canada and internationally) are finding it helpful. We continue to add to what is already documented both forward and backwards in time, including testimony regarding the original bill C-14. It’s all there on the governments record, it just takes time and patience to get it organized and documented — but we’re getting there!
  • Speaking of developments, we have also maintained a pretty good record of media coverage and begun an archive page. Many of these clippings come to us from supporters, so if there’s an article, news clip, documentary, movie or anything you think should be featured, either here or elsewhere on the website, please pass it along. If you know a researcher or journalist (or politician at any level of government) who shares our concerns around these issues, please send them our way!
  • We’ve been adding our voice to these efforts: we wrote a brief to the joint parliamentary/senate committee (AMAD); we challenged the Minister of Health regarding research funding; we signed on to a major letter authored by BCANDS, etc. We are always on the watch for concrete actions we can take. Please let us know if there is someplace you think we could make a difference! 
  • We’ve been helping people to engage with the political process by encouraging submissions to relevant committees, distributing petitions, urging phone calls, etc. There’s an important petition circulating now regarding mental illness — please be sure to sign on! 
  • We joined the list of organizations supporting the VPS — that’s the Vulnerable Persons Standard. “The Standard incorporates five evidence-based safeguards intended to protect the lives of Canadians. These safeguards [would, if adopted] help to ensure that Canadians requesting assistance from physicians to end their life can do so without jeopardizing the lives of vulnerable persons who may be subject to coercion, inducement to suicide and abuse.” We encourage readers to visit the VPS website and familiarize yourselves with the very impressive documents developed by a highly esteemed group of professionals from many fields. We are SO not alone!
  • We’ve let the folks at ARCH (Disability Law Centre) know that we’re on board for any future actions, both national and international. 
  • We’ve taken baby-steps in advocacy for safe housing options for people with MCS (Multiple Chemical Sensitivities). (Nothing that we can share just yet, but we’ll keep you posted.)

No single submission or signature is likely to move the mountain or stem the tide, but every action taken adds to the overall effort to restoring Canada to a caring community that supports and encourages Canadians, rather than giving them the finger of death. 

We want to thank our supporters and salute all the folks out there that are taking their own steps, big or baby.  We’re with them even if they don’t know we exist! 


  1. You are doing extremely important work faced with the overwhelming apathy of most Canadians when it comes to C-7 until its tragic effects strike close to home and a federal government that settles for photo ops and talking points instead of engaging in thorough research, consultation and empathy before drafting legislation. Thank you for what you have done and continue to do.

    1. Thank you for the encouraging words. The research question is an interesting one. Evidence on our side is usually dismissed as “anecdotal”, and is put up against “research” paid for by MaiD enthusiasts, or against “professionals” whose objectivity is highly questionable. The disabled community is neither trained nor funded to conduct massive quantitative research projects. Stories are what we have.

  2. Beyond fantastic work good people. At 84, COPD from UK Nazi bombing 1941 and MCS diagnosed 1974 (ON) your work and witness is a treasure to my Wife and I.
    Having spent 22 years, and thousands of dollars from our small pension, to Disability renovate our home I much appreciate your inclusion of safe housing for all (article 25
    UDHR). We’ve fought necessary , univited deadly wood smoke invading our home now in our “golden years.”
    Thank you again for all you do and for who you are.

    1. Thank you, Byron, for taking the time to comment. I’m so glad my words have been meaningful and important to you. Sorry for the troubles you’ve faced and continue to grapple with. It’s way past time for humanity to clean up its act and start detoxifying the environment, for everyone’s benefit!!

  3. Congratulations on all the hard work. I have found I had to be brave enough to share my personal story to reach people. It was a hard choice. Being a polite Canadian I didn’t want to inflict my worries on others espcially people I didn’t know really well. I had to get past that, this is a life and death issue. Thank you again for all you do.

    1. Sharing is caring! Others are facing the same issues that you grapple with in this very challenging time. Mental health issues are on the rise as we try to cope with anxieties on so many fronts. Stay strong, calm and centred as much as possible, and yes, reach out to others — they might surprise you with their empathy and understanding.

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